Diamonds are a girl's best friend

It's been a few weeks now I’ve come across a lot of guys who say that girls only want money and if you dont have it then the girl’s not interested. Loads of posts on blogs, facebook, etc...

I say, if you actually believe a girl only wants you for your money, you prove her that she has no other reason to be interested in you. I mean you don’t love yourself, you have no other qualities to be accounted for, you are a loser.

This idea that girls like men with money is a fantasy. It is true that being women, thus “supposed” to give life one day, and by extent, having to take care of a child, we need security. And money can be a symbol for security. But it is far from compulsory. You can be a safe man by being there, caring, doing whatever it takes to take care of the ones you love. This is what matters most, with love, and honesty.

Other thing is what is wrong if a girl likes a man who’s nice, smart, funny, and happens to have money. Having money is a bonus. Then it depends on the people, some will only look at rich guys, some others just dont care, most of us. But we could say the same about men who only want a very slim blond girl, with big tits, big ass, “a lady in the street but a freak in the bed”.

If i did studies, and have good wages, and a certain way of life, its just easier for us to meet a guy who kind of have the same level as me. Men hate it when their girlfriends earn more than them.

It’s easier for men to say that girls don’t want them because they dont have the money rather than questioning themselves about their inner qualities. I hate it when rappers do songs about the girls who only want them for the money. So they think they have no other qualities the girls could like them for?

Honestly, we are more about the heart, that’s what makes us and that’s what will kill us.

So guys, here’s my advice. Money or not, just be yourself, or even better than usual if you want a chance with the girl you like. What matters if to open your heart to beautiful feelings, feel the love grow in your chest, and make sure she knows it. Then its destiny.

So stop fuckin hiding behind the money/no money line to justify your shittiness. A woman loves a man who has a big heart to love her, shoulders to support her, confidence to reassure her, pride to defend her. If you do that, she’ll give it back to you a 100 more times without even asking her. Yes we may be subtle and hard to understand sometimes, but we are passionate. Our heart is 100 man’s heart. But we are mysterious beings, even to ourselves. We can love deeply and suffer from it. We believe in the man we love even though the whole world is against us. We are the key of life. We can create and we can demolish. We are God.